Fans defend DJ Zinhle for wishing her late baby daddy a joyful Father’s Day, asserting Bongz accepts his role as stepfather.
Dj Zinhle wishing her late baby daddy, AkA, a joyful Father’s Day is in no way disrespectful to her current husband, Bongz.
Men who become stepfathers deeply understand and accept their inferiority to the baby daddy. When a man marries a single mother, he accepts that his only opportunity for mating and reproducing is by caring for another man’s sperm.
At this point, people should leave this couple alone; they both understand the arrangement. Bongz knows his role; he is successful at being the option, and in return, he gets scheduled intimacy.
Choosing to be a stepdad is one thing. It happened a lot back then, because single motherhood was the exception, not the rule.
But having your wife call up her (dead) baby daddy in public is disrespectful, no matter how you cut it. Zinhle should have kept her mouth shut in public.
Critics, however, contend that no stepfather should receive the same respect as a father. He should go and start up his own family and leave another man’s household alone. Men don’t join another man’s family; they build, create, and make their own.
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